||| OUR COMMUNITY ..Between Customs & Religion |||

الحالة
مغلق و غير مفتوح للمزيد من الردود.

حنان

بـترولـي خـاص
Hi everybody

I think Many things are misconepted these day , things are
mixed up between culture&Customs and Religion


Just lemme say
What the heck is happening in our communities
DUH




Lets See
Some examples



Any man with a beard is honored and they call him " ya sheik " , and
The man who doesn’t he is a pervert and doesn’t get much respect

Story : Khalid is 22 y , with a long beard , doesn’t listen to music , looks very gentle
Basil is 22 y , no beard , he prays all his prayers but he listen to music and wear jeans
Basil proposed to Sara's family to marry her but they refused , and when Khalid
proposed they agreed … 1 year later , Basil found Khalid in Bahrain in the cinema dating a new girl

Any woman who wear Hijap , cover her face ,and her Abayah is up to her head is
a respectable good woman … The woman who wears Abayah up to her shoulders
and doesn’t cover her face is a hooker

Story : Dalia wears face cover and abayah to her shoulder in KSA .. and when she goes
to Egypt we found her in the night club wearing a T-shirt and jeans …. While , Afnan still
wears her Hijap in Egypt

Praying is only required in the Exams

Story : Hisham is in 3rd secondary school , he decided to pray all the prayers … after he
finished his exams , he is sleeping the whole day and missed all the prayers

Only Families !! Single guys are not allowed to enter The Mall

Story : Ahmed is a 22 y single man , the security guy didn’t allow him to enter
Dhahran mall Because it's " Families ONLY" . Naser is 22 y single man , but they
allowed him cause he's with his woman .. One hour later , Al-Haya'ah kicked him out
the mall cause he was dating a girl

>>comment : انا ابي اعرف ، ياناس هل كان بعهد الرسول فيه شي اسمه عوايل !

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Girls who talks with guys on the phone are Bit*hes and unforgivable … Guys who sleep with
girls are perverts but they still have another chance

Story : Nsreen is a 35 y , still not married because they found her talking to a guy
on the phone 15 years ago
Rashed is a 25 y , Every night he's with a pretty woman .. and when he proposed for
marriage he was more than welcome

Linking and contacting your relatives is a custom more than a religious duty

Story : Ahmed and Yosef are cousins …. Ahmed visits his uncles every week , and he
is big in their eyes and everybody likes him …. Yosef visits his uncles every
month , and get much respect as Ahmed gets … 5 years later , both of them got
married , yosef is STILL in contact with his uncles while Ahmed IS NOT



You should marry your country's Girl and marriage from a foreign woman is shame

Story : Faris is an Emarati guy , went to Egypt for studying to get master's degree , he
married from an Egyptian gentle woman … when his family knew ,they disown him … he
stills happy with wife and he have now 5 children
Yaser is an Emarati guy , married from a woman from his country .. After 3 years they
divorced and their 2 children are dispersed


Finally , We need you to give us your impression about this subject and what to you think
and , if you still have time , we would like you to answer the following questions

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Do u think nowadays , customs n' culture overcome religion **

Do u think there's a way to put right these wrong beleives and how **

Why do we still adhere these wrong customs n' behaviors oppress our rights **

Do you have any example of one of the wrong customs in
out communities , that u'd like to share it with us **

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thnxxxx
 

SOS_KW

بـترولـي خـاص
أعضاء الشرف
عزيزتي حنان .. أشكر لك مجهودك الملحوظ وحضورك الطيب .. ولكن الرجاء كتابة المواضيع باللغة العربية فقط ، حيث أنه منتدى عربي ، وليتمكن جميع الزملاء من التفاعل معك.

وتقبلي احترامي



Dear Hanan thank you so much for your remarkable attendance , but please kindly write your themes in Arabic language so all colleagues could interact with you and because it is an Arabic Forum​
 
التعديل الأخير:

حنان

بـترولـي خـاص
اختى مشكورة اول شي على الرد ثانيا هالموضوع عادي مافية شي مافي واحد منا ما يعرف انجليزي وحتن احنا كبار ودارسين وحتى اللي مو دارس اعتقد بيفهم على موضوعي

على العموم انتي تامرين ماني كاتبة مواضيع باللغة الانجليزية بتاتا :)
 

SOS_KW

بـترولـي خـاص
أعضاء الشرف
حبيبتي حنونة .. ما يامر عليج عدو يا الغالية ..

حنونة ترا فيه ناس ما تعرف انجليزي وفي واحد بينا شكله رايح وجايب المترجم ويحاول يطلع معاني الكلمات حتى يفهم القصد من الموضوع

سلمت ودمتي عزيزتي
 

Future man

بـترولـي نشيط جدا
كلامك صح أخت حنان مافي أحد فينا مايعرف إنجليزي خصوصا موظفين القطاع النفطي وبعدين القصة جميلة بس ما عرفنا تكملتها الرجال لقى المفاتيح اللي ضاعت منه ولا مالقاها :eek:
 

brilliant

المـراقب الـعـام
مع احترامي للاخت حنان هالموضوع يدس السم في وسط العسل

Hi everybody

I think Many things are misconepted these day , things are
mixed up between culture&Customs and Religion


Just lemme say
What the heck is happening in our communities
DUH




Lets See
Some examples



Any man with a beard is honored and they call him " ya sheik " , and
The man who doesn’t he is a pervert and doesn’t get much respect

Story : Khalid is 22 y , with a long beard , doesn’t listen to music , looks very gentle
Basil is 22 y , no beard , he prays all his prayers but he listen to music and wear jeans
Basil proposed to Sara's family to marry her but they refused , and when Khalid
proposed they agreed … 1 year later , Basil found Khalid in Bahrain in the cinema dating a new girl

(قصه خالد وباسل تحرض على سماع الاغاني وحلق اللحيه)

Any woman who wear Hijap , cover her face ,and her Abayah is up to her head is
a respectable good woman … The woman who wears Abayah up to her shoulders
and doesn’t cover her face is a hooker

(قصه تنتقد عبائة الراس وتصف الي يلبسون عباية راس بالعاهره)

Story : Dalia wears face cover and abayah to her shoulder in KSA .. and when she goes
to Egypt we found her in the night club wearing a T-shirt and jeans …. While , Afnan still
wears her Hijap in Egypt

(قصه خياليه تشبة البنات المستورات بانهم يسون بلاوي برا بلادهم والعياذ بالله)

Praying is only required in the Exams

Story : Hisham is in 3rd secondary school , he decided to pray all the prayers … after he
finished his exams , he is sleeping the whole day and missed all the prayers

Only Families !! Single guys are not allowed to enter The Mall

Story : Ahmed is a 22 y single man , the security guy didn’t allow him to enter
Dhahran mall Because it's " Families ONLY" . Naser is 22 y single man , but they
allowed him cause he's with his woman .. One hour later , Al-Haya'ah kicked him out
the mall cause he was dating a girl

>>comment : انا ابي اعرف ، ياناس هل كان بعهد الرسول فيه شي اسمه عوايل !

/ ( ماكان في عهد الرسول شي اسمه عوائل بس كان مافيه شي اسمه اختلاط)

Girls who talks with guys on the phone are Bit*hes and unforgivable … Guys who sleep with
girls are perverts but they still have another chance

(يعني الهدف زيادة العقوبه على الاولاد ولا السماح للبنات باشياء غير القصاص)

Story : Nsreen is a 35 y , still not married because they found her talking to a guy
on the phone 15 years ago
Rashed is a 25 y , Every night he's with a pretty woman .. and when he proposed for
marriage he was more than welcome

(قصه قصيره ومبين ان الي كاتبتها مصريه ميته على الاماراتيين وعمت على كل المصريات انهم زينيين وكل الاماراتييات مو زينيين)

Linking and contacting your relatives is a custom more than a religious duty

Story : Ahmed and Yosef are cousins …. Ahmed visits his uncles every week , and he
is big in their eyes and everybody likes him …. Yosef visits his uncles every
month , and get much respect as Ahmed gets … 5 years later , both of them got
married , yosef is STILL in contact with his uncles while Ahmed IS NOT



You should marry your country's Girl and marriage from a foreign woman is shame

Story : Faris is an Emarati guy , went to Egypt for studying to get master's degree , he
married from an Egyptian gentle woman … when his family knew ,they disown him … he
stills happy with wife and he have now 5 children
Yaser is an Emarati guy , married from a woman from his country .. After 3 years they
divorced and their 2 children are dispersed


Finally , We need you to give us your impression about this subject and what to you think
and , if you still have time , we would like you to answer the following questions

/
l
l
/

Do u think nowadays , customs n' culture overcome religion **

(بالعكس العادات والثقافه الاسلاميه ملتحمه)

Do u think there's a way to put right these wrong beleives and how **

(مافهمت السؤال)

Why do we still adhere these wrong customs n' behaviors oppress our rights **

( فيه فروق ونحاول نغطيها لكن ليس بالطريقه الخطأ الموصوفه والمبالغ فيها)

Do you have any example of one of the wrong customs in
out communities , that u'd like to share it with us **

هذا دليل على ضعف الموضوع

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thnxxxx
 

م.محمد

بـترولـي خـاص
حنون مع انه القطاع النفطي المفروض الكل يعرف انجليزي
بس للاسف القله الي تعرف بس

ومشكوره على الموضوع
 

حنان

بـترولـي خـاص
كلامك صح أخت حنان مافي أحد فينا مايعرف إنجليزي خصوصا موظفين القطاع النفطي وبعدين القصة جميلة بس ما عرفنا تكملتها الرجال لقى المفاتيح اللي ضاعت منه ولا مالقاها :eek:

حياك الله اخوي
 
الحالة
مغلق و غير مفتوح للمزيد من الردود.
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